Niki Johnson

Do you have a wish list of traits you want in a partner? Kind, generous, physically fit, financially stable, emotionally mature…you know… the usual?

That’s great! Now, do YOU possess those same qualities? Hmmmmmmm…..

Do you want a kind hearted person, but you’re still carrying around a lot of bitterness from failed relationships?

Do you want someone in reasonably good shape, but you’re carrying around a lot of extra weight?

Do you want someone financially responsible but you’re drowning in credit card debt?

[Read more…] about Be Who You Want to Date

If you find yourself constantly getting dumped, or not getting call backs after dates, then you need to get a life.

This is a blog post for my friends who have just been dumped, or cannot get a call back after a date, or worse you have been ghosted! First of all, let me say, I’m really sorry. That sucks and I have been there (a bunch).

What I write in this blog, may sting a little, but I only say it because I know personally with every fiber of my being that it’s true and that I can help you. I want you to be happy whoever you are. Everyone deserves to be happy. If you think you can handle some tough talk and constructive criticism, then I’m here for you. Can you handle it?

Okay, what does it mean to be ghosted? Well, basically it’s when you never hear back from someone you’ve been going out with for a couple of months and they just disappear! Yes, it happens. Brutal I know.

What did you do wrong? Well, you can analyze the crap out of it, but I will give you one answer…  [Read more…] about Get a Life

If you want to find the man to love forever, you have to first love men! Men and women need each other to survive. It’s just a fact of life.  This is for my ladies who are feeling a little pissed at men in general right now.

NO judgement I’ve been there. (Wow have I been there!) When I say you have to first love men… I don’t mean sleep around, although I’m all for women who need to be adventurous and sow their oats so to speak. (No judgement there at all and that’s an entirely different blog post). [Read more…] about Learn to Love Men Again