Are you struggling to attract a high value person? I’m talking about a genuine person with strong character, good values, and a strong moral compass? If you are, then it’s generally for one of two reasons. Are you unable to attract and keep a partner who is genuine, authentic, and caring? If you seem to find yourself dating jerks, or completely selfish people, then you may fit into one of two categories I describe below. Also, if you’re struggling to keep what you consider a “good catch,” it may be for these reasons as well.
We all want the kind of person who will support us, love us, and be kind to us. The kind of person that no matter what has your back and always takes your feelings into consideration. The person who treats us with gentle kindness and consideration and truly loves who we are.
Sounds pretty great, right?
It took me a long time to find this. It took me 36 years, with multiple failed relationships, and a divorce under my belt, but I finally found it. I not only found it but was finally able to attract this type of person, and more importantly, keep this kind of person in my life. There are two reasons that contribute to this. I’ve found myself in one or both scenarios at different times in my life.